Please help, I get severe ingrown shut after waxing hair growing is making it so much worsešŸ™

I know I donā€™t have anything and Iā€™ve struggled with ingrowns for 6+ years but this is a all time high, theyā€™re driving me crazy I exfoliate, Iā€™ll leave there area alone... Iā€™ve even used alcohol and peroxide on them and still nothing just now I tried to treat it as if it was acne to see if that helped but

Ladies what can I do to help this stop?šŸ˜©šŸ„ŗ

*i donā€™t wear tight underwear, I gym but I bring cleaning wipes to wipe my face and down there after every work out and I donā€™t even wear underwear to sleep* idk what is causing this besides having curly hair and it growing into my skin