I had a bad experience with my last pregnancy and ob/gyn.it ended in MC and d&e, and then i needed a follow up d&e 5 months later because my levels were rising and i was referred to an oncologist.

Fast forward to now, 28 weeks pregnant, healthy thank God. I was going to a fertility clinic from weeks 4-11, then MFM as im 35 now every 2 weeks to check my cervix.

My new ob/gyn (since the last one suddenly mysteriously stopped practicing) i see a round of doctors, which is typical, i guess, for like 5 minutes every 4 weeks.

They dont really talk or ask questions, no one has told me the size or weight of my baby, ever (even at the anatomy scan), we havent discussed birth plan, post partum depression, or what these pains really are (normal im sure) but like...wtf!

How much are you getting paid to listen to my babys heartbeat?! I have a doppler at home i can use for all this!

I'm currently waiting in the office to be seen again and im just frustrated and scared and emotional.

I'm OVER these doctors. This could also extend to nearly every doctor.