One of the worst things about miscarriage

⭐️MerFerret⭐️ • Beagle mama • Lupus & Fibro • 🏳️‍🌈 bi

Other than... you know... having a miscarriage...

Is how long it can take. It's been a week an a half after my d&c and I'm still getting some bloody discharge. Barely any... but every time I see that brown-red stain on my panty liner or underwear it's like it's just so disappointing and such a stupid reminder.

I've had miscarriages 3 different ways and even the "easy" way and the "quick" way that is d&c still seems to be taking a bit of time (though was the least physically painful way to miscarry in my experience) and does not instantaneously solve the issue.

I'm not back at work and it's a frustrating thing to deal with after having to emotionally prepare for everything this is still happening and it makes me feel like i have no control.