He won’t do it !!??

Question

My bf n I have been together for almost 4 years n after tha like first year he doesn’t really even eat me out n before n after I start my period I have n oder n once n a while I will have n Oder n he tells me I do n it makes me feel bad I’m human I’m not ganna always smell like raspberries n cream like what is it is it me ?? How do I get him to goin down south??

Answer

Some people just aren't comfortable giving oral. I wouldn't take it too personally, vaginas are going to smell like vaginas, and some people are spooked out by it, lol. 
Then there are people like me that would buy a candle that smelled like their partners sweaty ballsack. Lawl

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If there's an odor there's an odor. Maybe it is off putting  🤷🏽‍♀️ You can't make him do it, just respect his boundaries

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Try to balance your PH. If it’s the smell he is bothered with. I usually sit and soak in an Apple Cider Vinegar bath once a week even during my period to help keep balance. I don’t know if you trim your kitty but if not try a little trim or go full on bald and see what that does.

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Clean up before hand. For a while my now husband wouldn't want to do it, we talked about it though. If he asks me to clean up, or shave it a little more, I do. Because if I want him to go down on me, I want it to be pleasurable for him also

He won’t do it !!??

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