I'm 15 years old and for a while now I have just had one thought on my mind and it that I want a baby. I feel kind of stupid to say that I'm so young and wanting a baby (boy) but I just... do. Has anyone else thought this?? Or am I just crazy 😞😬🤔🥰

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If anyone can give me an explanation or advice about this or what to do... that would be great! 🙌👏🙏🙇💞

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I think it’s not weird but please wait. Wait until you’ve graduated high school and you can provide and support a child. And be mentally ready for a child.

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Your hormones are going nuts right now. At 15 you're at your "peak" of puberty. That's why you're wanting a baby most likely. It's not a coincidence that you're feeling this way at this age. Buuuuut, that feeling will calm down and potentially spike again towards your mid to late 20s. Totally normal, but you definitely don't want a baby at 15 ;)

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I love it when I am answering polls and I accidentally click on another poll and vote before reading 🙄
No, you aren’t crazy. It’s normal, but you are too young to have a child. It would be very hard for you to raise a child at your age, because you would be sacrificing a lot as a teenager. 
Hormones can also cause you to feel the need to be a mother but don’t cave in to that. But it’s very normal for teen girls to want fantasize about having babies.

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I’ve wanted to have a kid since I was 10 but I have planned out my life and decided to wait until I’m 26 to 30 I’m 14 currently and can’t get it off my mind but I want my parents to not disown me so yeah

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I had similar thoughts when I was your age, but now that I am older I laugh about it. Thank god I never got pregnant 🤰 when I was 15 because it would have ruined my life and my boyfriend at the time. 
Fast forward many years in the future. I met my husband we enjoyed life together very much and three years later we decided to have a baby. 😍❤️ We lived comfortably we hired help a cleaning person and a night nurse. I am so grateful it happened that way because I couldn’t not have done it any other way. I do admire single parents like they are my heroes. 
I will tell you this much think about your dreams, your goals, the places you want to visit, the people you could possibly meet and fall in love with...With a baby at such young age many of those dreams might not come true.

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PLEASE WAIT! I’m 14 and just had twins and it wasn’t easy on me (mentally or my body or them.) I understand wanting a baby because I did but I knew I didn’t need to get pregnant and I wasn’t trying to get pregnant. You need to be able to provide for the baby and be able to take care of it/them and not have to worry about school because I’m still in school and it’s stressing me out and I haven’t even been able to take them home yet.

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I feel like when you’re 15, you want that sense of someone depending on you’ll you can be responsible for something, as well as being independent of your parents. Maybe to show them that you’re “an adult” or “old enough” to handle something. It’s a normal thought (although I didn’t think that myself). I remember wanting to do things or have things that weren’t necessarily good for me at the time. I wanted to feel more mature or more trustworthy, or something along those lines. Just typical teenager, but your thoughts are manifesting in the form of wanting to be a mother.

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It's probably because your lacking love and affection in your life. That's the most logical explanation. Babies are more hard than fun...and so expensive. Definitely wait til you can live on your own and support one!!

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I think most teens go through that phase but it isn’t as peachy as you’d hope. It’s painful, emotionally scarring, it can make you very depressed at times. It gets hard. I can’t ride the bus without getting lightheaded and being in the brink of fainting. I over heat so badly it feels like I’m on fire and I literally have to lay down and have panting fits. Happened in multiple stores and malls where I’ve just been laying in the floor and had 911 on speed dial. It’s crazy. And sometimes people can be cruel and the judgement does get to you. It’s all so hard

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Just wait. Go to school and get a good job and get your life in a good spot then have a baby.

I'm 15 years old and for a while now I have just had one thought on my mind and it that I want a baby. I feel kind of stupid to say that I'm so young and wanting a baby (boy) but I just... do. Has anyone else thought this?? Or am I just crazy 😞😬🤔🥰

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