Me and my husband will be together 7yrs on the 12 of dec we got together when we where 15 and 16 had our first kid together when I was 18 fast forward to now we have 3 boy together a 4mo 2yr old and 4yr old I still love my husband so much I know he loves me,but lately he says he feels unloved he says he feels I dont like to be around him and that i don't want to have sex with him,,the sex has been hard lately my labor was terrible and i feel I'm still a littl scared so when we do it i do kinda close up like i dont relax I'm scared it will hurt and i feel bad...he helps with the boys so much feeds them showers them brushes there teeth this morning he was laying down we woke up at like 8am he went pee i told him i needed to shower he asked to cuddle i told him i will shower first but when i got out he kept saying he felt turn down he said dissed I felt bad but I have been sooooo tired lately and havent had time to shower in 2 days... am I terrible?how do I fix this??I love him so much and I know he loves me he takes the kids in his man cave so I can sleep early and stuff lately like I said ive been very tired lately I dont know why I will be in bed by like 9 sleepying by 10 even on the weekends I dont hug him as much as I used to I feel like I have no time or I forget sometimes and I just feel so heartbroken that I'm making him feel the way he does

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