When should I start?

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I’m 15 and I’m high school where most has had sex I’m scared for the risks I would be taking but kinda wanna take them i don’t know what to do and I obviously can’t tell my mom about this because I come from a Christian family and they believe sex before marriage is a sin any advice?

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You'll probably regret it. My vote is to wait until you're married... But at minimum I would wait until someone comes along that you're sure you want to forever share that memory with. Don't just give it away because you're curious. The first time is... Not always exciting.

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Having sex to be like someone else has to be one of the worst reasons to do it.

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I was from a Christian family as well, so was my husband. When we started dating which was shortly after we graduated high school, we knew we were going to get married so we decided to have sex. Here we are a little over 8 years later, still married. I was NOT willing to take the chances of sex before then. If you are unsure, I would say wait. If you're going to do it anyway, you need to find someone you can confide in about getting birth control or at least make sure the guy is wearing a condom and wearing it correctly and don't let them pressure you into no condom.

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I know it's hard feeling like you're the odd one out, but your first will always hold a small corner of your mind and/or heart. Wait until you find someone worthy of that.

When should I start?

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