dear friend, we have been through so much together.

we met working together at a restaurant. we became so close for many years.

you were unhappy in your relationship of 4 years and years treated you like a queen. He bought you a car and gave u a home. he was so motivated to do well for you working 3 jobs and going to school.

Then you became bored.

You started to like someone else which I knew was a mistake. you started to hang around him before ending things with your current boyfriend. You left your current boyfriend to be with this man who had 2 kids he never paid attention too. I knew it was wrong. I supported your decisions because I wanted you to be happy.

The man you chose has been kicked out of every place hes lived and is not welcome in any family members home. RED FLAG #1. He has a felony which I can look past if hes trying to better himself but hes not. he has 2 children he doesnt care to know.

You get pregnant with him. and he starts to fight with you often becoming verbally and mentally abusive. I told you to leave. Your baby comes he is not a good father amd you and him both move back into your family's house where he gets kicked out of. he doesnt ake care of your son but shakes him leaving bruises to stop crying and leaves him crying for everyone else to take care of. Your ex offered to raise this child but you denied him because you are to smitten by your new bf to see he is all wrong for you. you tell me one day you are ready to leave and I'm so proud of you for that. and then the next you find every excuse to stay.

He starts messaging other women on Instagram and lies to you about it but the comes up with the excuse to say you've gained weight and then u start to question your appearances and say u r the one that needs to change.

I love you always, but I cant support you and your decisions anymore...