Sex after vaginal delivery

Ka

My husband and I have had sex twice after I delivered vaginally. Both times have been excruciatingly painful. I tore a little while giving birth and had to be stitched up. The tear didn’t hurt AT ALL after delivery. The pain is right where I tore and I feel like I’m tearing again there when we have sex. I also red for a couple days after. I know there is pain with sex after having a baby but is this much pain normal?