My boyfriend and I have been dating for quite a while now and have been having sex for a bit.

But I’m concerned that he just doesn’t find me attractive or that I don’t really “turn him on” so to say. I feel as if I have been the only one to initiate sex in our entire relationship. I just don’t know what I can do to make him want me. I don’t consider the amount of sex if like to have as excessive, is two times a week too much to ask?

If I don’t try anything we might never have sex again. I’ve been sort of testing this, and we went over 3 weeks without having sex, simply because I didn’t initiate it and we only had sex again because I didn’t want to wait any longer.

I just feel as if I didn’t initiate sex we wouldn’t have it ever again and I want to know what I’m doing wrong.