.. if you Have, how did it end? Did you and your SO get passed the cheating and stayed together? I'm really lost right now and I don't know what to do. I love him. But.. he betrayed me. He said it was only once and only with that one girl. I found out because I opened his phone (I wasn't purposely looking to snoop or anything. I was just opening his phone to call my older sister) and it opened to this chat. I thought nothing of it until a message popped up saying "baby are you there I can't sleep" and I thought what the fuck? So.. I scrolled up. Bad decision. So much dirty talk so much flirting and 'teasing' if you get what i mean.

All i could do was stand there in shock. I couldnt believe it. I still don't want to believe it. Him and I have never had any arguments, fights, or problems. At least to my knowledge. We we're just having a party at our place and he was quite drunk. And all I could say when he walked into the room was "Who the Fuck is she." I was crying so hard.. theres many other details and it's just so much. He said it had only been going on for a week and he apologized over and over and promised to cut ties with her.

I want to move on from this I want us to fix this because I love him. And he said he wants to fix this.. but i guess what I'm asking is: is it even possible? Am I just stupid? Please someone I just need advice I have no one to turn to.