I have no clue what to do!

Mary

So I have been with my boyfriend for a few days short of a 2 years. And there are so many great qualities about him: he’s helped a lot with my anxiety, he’s super nurturing when I feel bad or am crying, he randomly surprises me with flowers. Drawback- he’s kinda immature & he’s been spoiled by his mom for so long that he expects that from me. HA. Also, in my family we value each SO invited in as a member of the fam. We are all very tight. But he just sits on the outskirts of the fam unwilling to make himself on of the fam. That REALLY bothers me. I’ve never dated a guy for this long. I don’t know if I don’t want to break up with him Bc were on a hot streak (lol) or Bc I really do want to be with him.