Unsupportive friends....

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Has anyone had this issue at all... I’m 39 been trying for awhile and my friend has also. We’ve been kinda going through it together. I was lucky enough to get pregnant... I’m almost 12 weeks. I just told my friend as I wanted to wait until I was past the danger of losing it and I know she’s been really down about not having success so I was nervous about telling her. However, I thought that since she understood how hard we had both been trying she would at least be happy for me, as happy as I would be for her. In fact she had a few false positives and I was so excited for her and supportive/comforting when she found out they were false. Anyway, I just told her and she ignored me for a day then said she couldn’t talk to me right now - she was too sad. I wanted to share this with my friend.... I completely understand her disappointment that it’s not her, but how can she be so cold to just stop being my friend... I’m so hurt and feel like my pregnancy ruined her day/week. I should just be happy but now I’m so depressed. Has anyone else had this happen? How do you deal with it?