I’m recently married to my amazing husband and I’m still in the “honeymoon phase”. My husband has a 4 year old daughter from a previous relationship whom I love dearly like she is my own. Before we got married we tried for a baby for 4 months in a row and after many negative tests and life getting in the way of things we stopped trying. Now that we are married, I’m more than ready to start adding to our little family. My husband on the other hand, not so much. I’ve asked him question after question but the only thing I continue to ask is, “why not?” To which he replies, “just not right now, it’s not a good time.” Understandable but then again, is it ever truly a “good time” to get pregnant? Probably not, there are always things that can be improved because of course we all want the best for our children. I don’t know my exact reasoning for posting this. Maybe just to rant or get some advice on how to handle this situation. I just don’t understand how we can actively try for four months and he’s suddenly changed his mind after we marry. Help