First time mum..

I literally feel like I have no idea what pains are normal and what are not. At the start of my pregnancy I would go to the doctors or even emergency once a week because of a random pain, the last few weeks I’ve had pains or cramps and I call up the widwives and get my partner out of bed or to come home from work ect and then I get told everything is fine and it’s all normal? Im starting to think I won’t even know when I’m going into labour because I’m passing all my pains off as everything being normal because I don’t know what isn’t normal?!

Is anyone else the same? Do you go to the doctors or call widwives for any new pain or cramp?