When do you know when you’re really ready to have a baby? What’s the right age to start trying? I’m not being rud but my mom was 50 when I was 15 and not able to do much I dont want to wait that long, but what if I have a child and don’t think I’m fit hen what, give it up for adoption & feel like shit the rest of my life? Or ask a family member to care for him/her? Or should I just never have kids, but then I don’t want to be old and say oh I’ve changed my mind! I don’t know I was just looking for some guidance or answers. I could just be overthinking everything.