Sex with hubby

Husband never wants sex he never initiates it at all it's always me and whenever I touch him he never lets me I have never given him a bj as he thinks it's dirty and my mate was like you have never given your hubby a BJ I go no he doesn't like it she found that weird and now I'm thinking does he really not like it cuz before we was married he has had BJ before ... Also whenever I touch him down there he pushes my hand away says he needs to pee or his tired he always says tomorrow we have sex Tomoro comes and he goes Tomoro I'm too tired