Who walks me down the isle?

i have a dad. but he’s mentally, emotionally and physically abusive. i truly hate him. before anyone judges me, he beat me up all my life and continues to harass me and my son. he’s shaken my 3 year old son and slapped him in the face.

basically destroyed my life after i got him sent to jail.

if i don’t have him in my wedding or even there it’s gonna start a HUGE war in my family. but i truly don’t even want him there.