I need someone to talk to because I've been holding this in for a long time and don't have anyone in my life I can talk to about this. I just need support...

My husband and I have been together for 5 years, married for 3. He's 21.

He is a repeat emotional cheater, and I know I should not have stayed with him this while time but here I am. So please don't just comment telling me to leave him, because I know I should but I'm really not ready.

This past January he went further than ever before and tried meeting up with a 17 year old that he met on Craigslist. He is a truck driver and had been on a long haul and got back to his work very late on the last day of his trip and we both agreed it'd be better if he slept at the warehouse rather than drive home. So I thought he was sleeping at work but he went and got a hotel and at this point had been talking to this girl most of his 5 day trip, they agreed to meet up but on the way there the girl (who didn't have a drivers license and stole her parents vehicle) got into a car accident. Shortly after her Dad starts messaging my husband using the girls phone, the girl was okay but the parents were obviously upset. Nothing else happens that night.

The next morning the Dad starts messaging my husband saying that his daughter tried to kill herself, had slit her wrists and wrote my husband name on the walls using her blood. He asks my husband to help pay for her medical bills and eventually starts threatening to call the police on him, also finds him on Facebook and sends screenshots saying that he's going to tell me and our families about everything. The dad wants $4000, my husband wires him $2000 (all the money he had) the dad keeps threatening him for a couple more days but eventually stops and we don't hear from him again.

My husband told me about everything right away and all while though it really hurt me and he severely damaged our relationship I decided to try to work through it.

I looked up the number and found out it wasn't from around here at all but several states away. Find out it's a guy in his early 30's and while not impossible he probably doesn't have a 17 year daughter. We're pretty sure it was all a scam but this guy does still have text proof that my husband was going to meet up with a minor.

But now eight months later the guy calls my husband and says he's going to call the police on him and my husband freaks out and hangs up, shortly after someone claiming to be the police call him. I'm not really sure what the conversation went like because I'm at work and haven't really got all the info but my husband told them that he was at work and couldn't hear them and hung up. They didn't call back or leave a message so I feel like it could be still a scam.

We're both terrified, any time the phone rings. I'm now 4 months pregnant and scared that he's going to go to jail and the I'm going to be alone taking care of our baby. I don't know what to do and I just don't feel like I can do this anymore.