Weight & Sex
My bf and I started dating less than a yr ago. When I first met him I weighed about 235. We would make out all the time and have intercourse several times a week. Ever since then I've gained about 50 lbs, (my weight fluctuates easily). So last night he was a little drunk and confessed to me the reason our sex life hasn't been the best is bc of "OUR" weight. I honestly don't get tired, but I do admit I can be less flexible. He confessed to me that he jagged off to one of my old pictures from 3 yrs ago (I was 200lbs). Keep in mind I didn't know him then. He tells me that he really wants me to lose weight, so that our sex life can be better. He tells me that I'm still beautiful but would love if I were lighter. Now we only have intercourse once, sometimes twice a week. But most of the time I give and hardly ever receive. I do get mad at him and say that I think it's unfair. He always says he feels exhausted after sex. I was also blaming it all on his alcohol intake. But after last night's confession idk how to feel. I felt a little hurt, I understand I let myself go. Do you think I'm overreacting or he is ok for being honest?
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