Boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex

Hello ladies I’m really concerned . I feel like I’m in the wrong for this but I know I shouldn’t be and I’m not. My boyfriend isn’t having sex with me and I don’t know why . He keeps urging me to give him oral sex , that’s fine I don’t mind doing it but I like to take turns , one night i give him oral sex and the next we should be having sex . No for some reason he won’t touch me he won’t even try to have sex with me. He literally just gives me signals that he wants head and that’s it. I’ve been constantly avoiding his signals because I realized what he’s doing ... ughhh idk. .. am I wrong for doing avoiding it ? I obviously want pleasure too but he’s not being considerate about what I want.