16 dpo BFN

Ma

Ok so I'm pretty sure I ovulated on CD 14, confirmed by checking cm and I usually spot the day I ovulate, which I did. Period is now two days late and when I tested this morning I got a BFN. I tested with a clear blue digital and then with a clearblue blue dye test and both were negative. Have any of you ladies gotten a BFP after 16dpo? My cervix is super high and soft and lots of clear, milky white discharge. I usually spot before AF and still nothing. Holding on to any hope! We have been trying for 18 months! 🤞🤞🤞