I have a very strong dislike for alcohol. Which has led to me have very strong opinions of people who abuse alcohol. It’s fine if you want to drink at social outings but using alcohol as a way to cope is SO UNHEALTHY. It irks me. Everyone in my family is a borderline alcoholic and my mother just moved in with me because her boyfriend of 15 yrs broke up with her and she’s drinking a copious amount of alcohol nightly and it’s pissing me off. I’m a nutritionist and i explain things to her but she keeps upset with me mothering her and says it makes it hard to be around me. I just don’t want to lose family due to alcohol. I see it happen often and they seem to believe it’s impossible. I in no way look down on these individuals especially when they understand what i explain to them, but when they said it’s God’s plan and if he wants them out of my life then so be it, i can’t handle it.