I’m so over the disrespect

Y’all I’m so over the way my ex acts. We were never married. We have a 4 year old together. The ONE time he wants to get her a day extra and ive told him we have had plans made. I am so over the disrespect. I have always tried to work with him. This is just one situation out of many. We are in the middle of going to court. One court date he didn’t show up. He has been thrown in jail for not paying child support and being so far behind. He never tries to call to check on her or talk to her about her week and expects me to call and update him in now she is. I feel as if hats but my job. I use to update him when she would go to the doctor, etc. but he has never called so see how she felt after the doctor. Nothing. He doesn’t support her at all. Refuses to pay child support, hasn’t paid his half of medical bills in over a year, refuses to help pay for half of her tuition for school, fees, or half of her sports. He is dating a 17-18 year old girl who tries to overstep and make decisions for my child. Me and my husband have been married for almost for years and has been in her life since she was a little under a year old. He has supported her since day 1 and has been such a good dad to her. She looks up to him more of a dad that her real dad. I’ve always given him a chance to step up and have the opportunity but he always shuts it down to the point where I am done trying. And now he acts like this. Mhusband has a great job and has the opportunity to move to GA or FL (our choice) with the agreement I have now with her dad it has a relocation act and so her dad is refusing

us to move. And with my lawyer she is saying that most judges don’t allow the parent to move out of state with “punishing” the parent who is moving. Which I think is complete crap. I have been the one to support my daughter since day 1. And that basically her dad come file for primary custody and get it. I would understand if I were moving out of spite. But my husband who is Supporting his family is trying to provide better for his family and her piece of crap dad can control it. And tell her where we can and can’t move. It makes me so mad y’all. Okay, rant over. 🙃🙃I