Husband’s family is ruining my baby boy’s arrival

Gender of baby was a surprise. We waited till birth to find out the gender.

Upon announcing the gender and name of our baby boy, my husband’s family members have expressed how upset they are that baby didn’t take over his name. My baby wasn’t born for two days when all this drama about why he isn’t a JR began. It’s upsetting but most importantly is so saddening to know that they can’t be happy for us and just enjoy the welcoming to the first grandson/great grandson from my SO side. My SO got lectured this morning about why it’s important to carry on the name.

If never had a great relationship with my SO family but have taken the steps to be cordial and put aside our differences. It is just so hard to do so because it seems like there’s always something I do/say they don’t agree with and it’s back to square one.

I’m just venting, idk 😐