Long story:

Well my husband and I have been having some major bad luck here lately, well since late july early august.

This is what all has happened since the end of July:

Got denied a promption

His car completely died out of no where

His brother tried to start stuff between my husband and I.

My grandma tried to start stuff between us Got denied another promption

My car has a sensor going out that messes with the transmission

He got bamboozled at a user car dealership (600 plus his old car)

Gave back the car less than 2 weeks into it. (Had more miles on it than mine of the same year and not wanting to go into park)

Got denied another promption

Interviewed for a different job (so he could stop working 2 jobs) didnt get the job

His great grandma died on the 6th of Sept.

Just had to cancel our family vacation in October.

There is probably more but cant remember all of it.

Lets just say it has been rough!!

Well yesterday the 7th he decided to call his mom and step dad to see if they could come babysit so we could have some much needed time together. They agreed to come and watch our 6 year old and 4 month old. We had a great time at the movies saw IT chapter 2. And got ice cream. Well we get home i take care of getting our 4 month old down for the night while he plays with our 6 year old. Well 6 year old asks to stay up and finish the level on this game. So we agreed since it was saturday night and grandparents had him jacked up on sugar 😳

Well husband was laying on the couch so i decided to sit beside him for a minute before washing bottles. During that time we were talking and got a few pop kisses but kept giving each other that look like we wanted something a little more...

Well i went in for the kiss and the 6 year old gets in the way, well just pops up out on no where. He walks a way. We try again. He comes back up again stopping us from even kissing. So i dont even try again i walk off and wash bottles and do my nightly stuff while texting the husband that way we can have an adult conversation without little ears involved.

Ive noticed here recently everytime i hug my husband for longer than 2 seconds he joins in or if we try to kiss like that he interrupts. I dont think he understands mommy and daddy need time too.

It wouldn't be so hard to have time if husband didn't work 2 jobs anywhere from 5 to 7 days a week and 10 to 14hrs a day. I know the kids want to see him and play which im totally fine with that. But damn i need time too.

Normally i get like 5 minutes in the morning before work and after work. And texts all day. He gets up at 7am and leaves by 730am then not back til 1030pm or 11pm.

Days off are barely there

Any advice???