You know what really grinds my gears?!

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When people who have waited or had to wait late in life To have kids get all bent over someone who didn’t saying they are happy they didn’t. I GET IT CAROL YOU HAD TO GO THROUGH 
IVF
! Guess what so did I! I suffer from infertility too but I can still be happy about the fact that I was blessed with two kids in my 20’s. Moral of the story is, if you don’t want people happy they had kids young making comments like “ill be 45 on a cruise while my kids are grown” DONT MAKE COMMENTS LIKE “aren’t you a little young to have kids?” MIND YA BUSINESS! You can’t be shitty to people and expect them to tip toe around your feelings. Turnabouts fair play! I’m sorry you were 38 before you were blessed with kids but let people be happy in their situation and don’t make asshole comments about how young they are then get all pissy when they make comments back

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That’s so true . I never realized the comments about young moms vs older moms until your post  . I think kids are a blessing no matter what age .

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I don’t care what people say I had my first at 22, second at 25 and now my 3rd and last at 28 (29 weeks)
My mom has my at 19, my brother at 22 and my sister at 35
I think age does matter when you have a baby but I don’t let it be known

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I’m pregnant at 39 naturally and never really cared when people young or old were having kids. It just was never on my mind so I never thought if people were too young. Obviously I knew I was getting old and probably needed to have kids soon but was never jealous or cared that anyone else was pregnant, young or old. My guess is people only care if they have fertility issues, not if they chose to not get pregnant on purpose. Either way, I think people should just mind their own business.

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I’m 22 but I don’t go around bragging how I got pregnant within two months like it’s easy. Honestly didn’t expect to be pregnant because of the stories I read on how hard it is to conceive. I’m happy for those that get their positive and I will root for those who are still trying to get their positive. No one should be mean about it either way.

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My favorite line from a book:
What of the cripple who hates dancers?
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What of the old serpent who can’t she’d his skin, and calls all others naked & shameless? 
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And of him who comes early to the feast & when over-fedd & tired goes on his way saying that all feasts are a violation & feasters are lawbreakers?
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They, too, stand in the sunlight, but with their backs to the sun. They see only their shadows & their shadow is the law. 
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And what is the sun to them but a caster of their shadows?
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Although the 45 on a cruise while my kids are grown is sort of an a-hole comment too... I don’t care when people have babies it’s your life. I never wanted them young. I enjoyed my 20s. I was “on a cruise” without having to worry about any kids, grown or not. Lol. 
Don’t be a jerk too. Your comments can be offensive to us here who are older having babies. Just like older people asking if you are too young for kids. It’s rude either way

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