Weak bladder after baby

So obviously our bladders tend to get weak after having a baby. I have always had a weak bladder even before I had a baby. But now it’s ten times worst. Now it’s to the point where I don’t feel like I have to go but any pressure my bladder gets then I leak a little. But I had to worst most embarrassing thing happen...I went during sex!!! Has this ever happened to anyone else? Omg I was so embarrassed I started crying, I ruined it! I didn’t even feel like I had to go but the pressure made me leak. I still can’t believe it. Please tell me I’m not the only one this happened to. Ugh!!! Sometimes it’s so hard dealing with things your body does after having a baby 😞😩😒😟😦