25 year gap

Hello everyone. I’m so grateful this group is here. I often feel so alone since nobody I know is in a large age gap relationship. I am 20 and my husband just turned 46. We have been happily married for a little over a year now. My parents love him, his family loves me, and we are extremely happy and in love. As soon as people find out we have a gap though I feel so judged and now I avoid the question when people ask me how old he is. I have friends who are married or in relationships but they don’t have a gap so they never want to do group couple things because they know my husband is older. Yes I know it isn’t “normal” but we are happy and perfect. I wish people weren’t so cruel and just accepted it