So I went to the doctor ...

Having lower back & pelvic pains. No odor, no discharge NO NOTHING but this , so I thought a UTI... which I’ve had times and thought I knew how I felt. So I had pills for that and took them and went in for an STD and my form of BC

Well. Me and my kids father broke up awhile back and after we broke up we were still sexually involved with each other. Feelings were there but he just couldn’t act right with me. So I finally said I’m worth more and deserve more.

Haven’t had sex with this guy for months. Been broken up for 18 months. Cut sex off when it made it a year and I started developing serious feelings for another guy that really cares for me and my kid. So I wanted to be faithful to him and give him the best me. Like he see la me as his wife we talk 24/7 he trusts me and vice versa.

Needless to say me and this guy have had sex plenty of times. Been talking for 7 months. Every time we see each other it’s sex because we live an hour away. We’re getting serious and one day the condom popped. Neither him or I knew until basically it was time for him to pull out.

Me not having no more pain thinking okay it was an UTI waiting until my results come back but I wasn’t much worried. I decided to ask my kids father if he had abnormal things going on. He says YES. When he pees it kinda burns. So right off the back I think of the other guy and I felt really bad and very disgusted with myself.

Finds out my baby’s father gave me Chlamydia and they call it the silent STD. This poor guy I feel like shit and I haven’t called him yet to tell him I just found out today.

Any advice?? How can I tell him I didn’t mean to do this? I got it from my kids father? I don’t want him thinking I’m disgusting or I’m still sleeping around with my BD. He’s such a good guy and my kid really loves him. We’re getting serious even thou it’s just the talking stage it’s been almost a year and we enjoy each other a lot. I just don’t know how to tell him without him thinking negative.