First appt with LGBT friendly doc

My wife and I have been trying for awhile with no success. So we made the decision I should get tested. After searching we found a gay friendly clinic near us (miracles). As someone from a family with a multitude of health problems I’m extremely nervous. Every time I’ve gone for a physical it’s required “more testing” just to get cleared so I’m honestly just posting for a little support. My wife is amazing in all aspects but stress and idk how she’ll hold up next month. Any body here with any insight into what to expect? I know there are groups for fertility I just worry about mentioning were a lesbian couple and all that entails. I know the lady said be prepared for a few hours stay and the full naked works. I really just don’t want to be broken...any help would be appreciated