Husband can have anxiety, but I can't

Lisa

So, my husband has anxiety about a few things. I am always the one to calm him down, make everything better, and be calm.

I have anxiety over doctors and especially dentists. We recently had to change insurrance and I was having a racing heart/anxiety. I am also anxious at times in general because I am pregnant with our first child. He gets defensive instead of supportive, and then gets crabby for the rest of the nignt.

How do I cope with, or get him, to be supportive toward me. I am also working part time right now because it is in the best interest of my health for the baby. He has been making what he calls, "jokes", which are basically digs about me not working as much every single day. It's really starting to get to me. What should I do?