He moved back to Cali yesterday. I plan to go with him in a year. She doesn’t know because every time I suggest leaving her (in any way, not just to be with him) she cries. She said she didn’t think he was good husband material and she would never have picked him for me. That she thinks he’s thoughtless and he offended her that he doesn’t talk to her much when she constantly says things that hurt him. She made me cry today because she started complaining at him. She said he was a good boyfriend because he let me see everything I didn’t want in a man. That he was just like my dad and she divorced him so it would be a mistake for me, and I dodged a bullet. We’re not broken up but she’s treating it that way and it really hurts that I’m dealing with this separation all on my own with no support from her. I’m scared for the future and she makes me feel so much worse. I love her and her opinion matters. But I love him and want to be with him always