So me and my bf have only been together for about 8 months. (Sorry if my English is off, it’s not my first language).

I love him and all, and I really want to make this work. He is the perfect boyfriend in every sense, EXCEPT the last couple of months he have completely neglected himself in any possible way!

I feel like I’ve been patient about it, but now I’m getting close to a limit.

Maybe I’m just up tight or whatever, but he never pays attention anymore to how he dress, he completely removed(trimmed it all away) his lovely beard and mustache and hair do, he doesn’t wear underwear, he doesn’t use soaps, he barely wash his hands, he coughs without holding his hands before his mouth and even sometimes directly at my face and when i complain he tried to get “funny” by licking my face, and he almost never brush his teeth anymore! He knows i can’t stand bad smells but he takes no consideration!

Also even tho I wash clothes regularly, he always wear stained clothes? I mean cum stain mostly!

Also I don’t really mind that he have put on a lot of weight(he used to diet and work out but have done none of that for 6 months and have doubled his weight by half of since we met) but the whole thing that I feel like he is trying to be super disgusting and not caring is upsetting me.

He is super sensitive and loves the shit about of me, he is great really.

But yeah he is really starting to disgust me and I feel so bad about it, I’m almost heartbroken because I feel so shallow.

Is there any way of telling him this without being “a bitch” or too insensitive? 😔

i guess the biggest problem is that he reminds me so very little of the guy I fell in love with.