So it’s the holidays around christmas. So it’s a tradition to sleep over at my mom’s twin sister’s house. Her older sister’s son was there and he makes me nervous. When I spent the night at my mom’s older sister’s apartment, he tried to hump me so I pushed him off of me and told he I will kick him in the balls if he ever touched me again. I hid in the bathroom until I was for sure that he fell asleep.

So Christmas time he comments on one of my photos on Facebook. He wants to drive somewhere and I’m like no not with that sneaky shit. I felt like something bad would happen just how he worded things in an inappropriate way. So I told him I’m not stupid and to fuck off. Thank god he left me alone and he is deleted off of my Facebook page. My cousin has tried to have sex with me so I no longer feel comfortable around him and will never be alone with him. My mom suggested us being roommates and I told her that’s a hard pass. She doesn’t know the real reason I just told her I don’t feel like being around someone that smokes weed plus it’s illegal here anyway.

So I’m always cautious of my cousin. I don’t hug him. I just shake hands and that’s it. He knows not to touch me or i will beat the shit out of him and he knows that.

No one in my family knows because I handled it by myself. I wasn’t going to be a victim about it. I learned how to fight and defend myself in case for whatever.