Gets sensitive down there

So when my fiance and I have sex some times while we are having intercourse he will finger my clit simultaneously. I absolutely love it but when I orgasm it gets so sensitive and he has to stop playing with my clit. I hate that it gets like that because I would like for him to keep doing it but I physically feel like I can't because it almost hurts when he does.

Does anyone else experience this? Is there ways around it at all?