Do I have the right to be mad or should I be understanding?

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My boyfriend and I are really going through it. We have not been seeing eye to eye at all. Well, my daughter turns one this Saturday and he made the decision to not attend her party. I. AM. PISSED. It's her FIRST birthday and he refuses to celebrate with her because of what he and I have going on?! Am I wrong to be mad?

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Regardless if he is her father or not, regardless if you two are fighting or not, it has nothing to do with your daughter and punishing her/using her as a pawn to hurt you is wrong.

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He’s being a shitty dad sorry . Your daughter shouldn’t be paying for the consequences of you two fighting . He needs to man up and be a dad and be there for his daughter , he sounds very immature.

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I’d be pissed. That’s his daughter as well. If he doesn’t want to be there the. He doesn’t want fo be on her life.

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Regardless if you two are upset with each other he should still be there for her on her birthday. That's wrong!

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He decided not to attend his daughters birthday because of being mad at you? Seems very childish!

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Is he her father??

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I would be livid. He’s her father and regardless of what the two of you have going on, he needs to be there for her. Not for you, not for him, for HER. His love for her should not be dependent on his relationship with you.

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There should be no excuse if he is her father. I would be done for real with him if he didn’t attend.

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Absurd.

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A child should never be punished for adults fighting with each other.

Do I have the right to be mad or should I be understanding?

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