Ttc....please help?

Af is due in 3 days...my cervix is still high, but it feels tightly closed and in between soft n firm....I’ve noticed tonight and yesterday I’ve been crying over random things....like tonight I was watching orange is the new black...last episode of season 5 and balled my eyes out when the guards destroyed the books...i have no idea why...I’ve watched the episode before and never cried at that scene...my s/o has said ive been a bit emotional lately , but I didn’t believe him until these last two days...i have had a heavy amount of creamy, milky-like discharge for the past 2.5 weeks... i took a test this past Sunday and it was negative...I’m currently 11 dpo....shouldn’t I have seen a positive by now??