A bit of venting because I’m stuck..

So I’m trying my best to track my cycle.. yesterday 9/11 I was supposed to ovulate.. I say “supposed to” because on my calendar that’s what it says.. now yesterday was a pretty busy day for my partner and I.. and guess what we weren’t able to baby dance.. 😭😭 I was pretty torn about it today.. because I didn’t want to miss any days especially the “expected ovulation day”.. but check this out as well.. last month when I ovulated I had ovulation cramps and if I can remember my CM was clear.. now this go around I’m not having any cramps nor is my CM clear.. it’s like thin milky white CM.. so I’m at a loss.. I am going to BD tonight and up until I clear out my days.. but what do you ladies think? Do I still have a chance.. are any of you going through the same thing..?