Started talking to this guy about 3 weeks ago. We’ve been to dinner twice and hung out at home once. No sex just activities. We talk all day when we aren’t sleeping. He is a firefighter 2 on 4 off rotation and I’m a nurse I have a 3 on 2 off 2 on rotation. I feel like things are going great I just need to approach him and see what he is looking for because I want a relationship. I don’t want to invest my whole heart into this for him to not want the same things I do. How do I approach him about this.