So me and my ‘boyfriend’ had an argument about him being super protective on his phone and how he’s been super distant from me, so whilst he was in the shower I know I invaded his privacy but I wanted to see for myself why he was getting so angry and aggressive over me even touching it when he freely goes on mine. Anyway, I found a female contact in his phone mind you he DOESNT have ANY female friends and knows that it’s not okay for him to be chatting to anybody in that way and hes been super distant with me going out clubbing etc anyway my name was saved as ‘budi’ apparently it means wife in Punjabi which I highly doubt (I tried googling it and it just comes up with old lady🥴) and then I see a woman saved as ‘Rosi X’ I’m 10 days away from giving birth and I want to know if he’s been cheating on me with this woman so is it wrong for me to text asking who this is politely.

Because when I asked him about it he got all defensive and was like I don’t know, I saw his phone again today and now there’s no name saved but the numbers still saved in his contacts.

I don’t want to over react and accuse him of cheating before having proof and I don’t need you all to comment on me being ‘insecure’ etc because I trusted him fully before he started acting different. I’m sure if any of you was heavily pregnant and your partner was spending less time with you and you saw a female in his phone most of you would question it so please be mindful when u comment