Hey ladies going threw a lot this past 3 days idk how to cope with the pain

But 2 months I found I was pregnant I this past Saturday was bleeding I thought I was miscarrying but not I still positive and hgg level was still high so my medical doctor is sometime normal but if anything out the ordinary go to the e.r on Thursday I had big blood clot

So when to e.r found out I have an ectopic pregnancy but I had one before but this time is different they had remove my tubes plz give advice