Hi everyone. I am 19 years old, I work and have a loving boyfriend but my dad has been getting mad at me for the smallest things. No this isn’t anything new but hear me out. Sometimes I like to have date nights or hangout with my boyfriend you know, spend time with him.

Recently my dad has been telling me an outfit doesn’t look good or anything I say is disrespectful and that he can’t sleep if I’m not home and that he is “ responsible” for me.... but legally no he’s not. I don’t go out to parties or do drugs but he acts as if I do. He’s also been threatening saying“my boyfriend can’t be in the house or he will call the cops and have him arrested and if he comes to drop something off to me after work” (he told me that not my boyfriend)

Today he told me I was on his “sh*t list” and if I don’t don’t all these random chores by the time he says “there’s the door” but anytime I talk about moving out he gets so angry at me.

I feel like I’m in a hole, anything I say or do is just wrong. I don’t get paid enough to really live on my own and I don’t even have a car! I’m getting no help from him 😔