So I recently started a new job. I have bad anxiety so some things may be a big deal to me that are no big deal to others.

I work for an insurance agent( doing billing). Let’s call her A.

There’s another agent in the same building, let call him B.

Well A got an new chair that needs to be built. A and B (and another A employee - C) were gossiping while I’m doing some training and C tells B that since he’s a man he should build A chair for her. Well B says under his breath, not knowing I could hear him, and he shouldn’t do it and that he would “make me do it because I look manly enough to put together a chair, and look like I should do the grunt work.” Everyone kinda giggles and they close the door and I could hear them saying since I’m bigger that I would be up for the challenge since I look like I can carry a load and know my way around tools.

A second incident happened today. A and B were talking and A asks B do help change her ink in printer since she doesn’t know how to do it. B says “isn’t that why you hired ‘The Help’ let her hands getting dirty and make her figure it out.”

I get that the newbie gets the dirty work but are his comments out of line? Would you say something? Who would you say something to?