Lgbt couple advice needed!!

Sloane

It will be me and my boyfriend's first time soon and I want us to both enjoy ourselves. I am a cis woman and my boyfriend is ftm and doesn't intend to transition on the lower aspect of things. We hope to get a strap on for him later but for now what advice would you give us to enjoy ourselves without one or without causing him to be dysphoric? Toys are still an option. Just more easily accessible ones like at Target/Walmart.