I have not physically seen him since the end of December. I have not verbally spoken to him on the phone since then either. All by his choice. I went to counseling on my own, and had hoped he would join me. He's gone twice in the last 11 months. A few months ago, he said that he wanted to start out by trying to be friends first. Which was fine with me. I always be the one to text him first. He has not once, unless he was trying to get into my business after he saw a fb post of mine. That's it. I asked him if he wanted to go to a concert in November, his response was, that's far in advance but I'll see what's going on. Are you kidding? That'll be 13 months into our seperation and you are still not making plans to see me. I wanted to continue to be patient but I am afraid he is playing some game and knows he doesn't want to be with me.

Advice?