My whole relationship with my SO has been basically revolved around him. We eat what he wants, do what he wants, watch what he wants, etc etc... I have tried to have opinions or suggest things but the answer is literally "no" ... I've gradually been distancing myself but we have a baby together so I figured I'd just keep pushing see where things go.

Well his friend actually moved in with us temporarily and last night we had a heart to heart about my relationship. It was soooo refreshing to talk to him because I felt like he heard me for once. Well then he was my wing man and talked to my SO for me and this morning a light switch went off! He actually went out of his way to be spontaneous, patient, nice, and seemed like he cared.

Until the buzz wore off and now he is back to the same thing. "Hey come eat with me babe" -- "you eat I'll eat after you" . "Hey do you want to come chill with me" -- "I'm busy" . "Hey what do you want to do tomorrow" -- "Nothing" . "Can we watch Austin Powers together tonight?" -- "No."

And now I'm in the bathroom just crying because I truly feel like I cant get through to him without someone else basically pressuring him to.

It's always been this way and I just want someone who CARES.