How to feel more relaxed when trying to climax?

Question

So I recently started using a vibrator and I'm trying to be more comfortable with the sexual experience and all.
I noticed that I get really tense and pull away everytime I feel like I'm hitting the right spots for orgasm. The feeling is so intense for me that I can't seem to handle it.
Any idea on what to do? I try to control my breathing and focus on the pleasure.

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I hold my breath LMAO it does help a lot.

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Same experience. Honestly just going slow and practicing help. Doing mental checks of "does this feel good? If yes then why am I pulling away? If no then what can I do to make it better?"
Making sure to check in with yourself and go at your own pace are the big things.

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I have had the exact thing happen to me🤷🏻‍♀️ For me  I have to really control my breathing and focus on the feeling

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I’m exactly the same 😭😭😭😭

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This happens to me all the time! I haven’t figured out how to get past this.. exactly how you said, it’s almost like I can’t handle the pleasure!

How to feel more relaxed when trying to climax?

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