Venting here so I don’t lose it on my husband

My daughter is 5 months old and overall a good sleeper... she is being extremely difficult tonight! She usually goes to bed by 7 and it’s now almost 9:30... 2.5 hours of crying. My husband just got home and said he would give it a try. He takes her out of her room and starts walking around the house with all the lights on and they puts her in my face to play and joke around.

I said “why are you doing this right now? How is playing with her and taking her out of her room a good idea right now?”

He turned to me and very angrily said “can you just shut the fuck up” and walked away with her.

?????????????? Like dude I have been trying to get her to calm down and go to bed for 2.5 hours..... 1) why do you think it’s a good idea to joke and play with her right now when we should be getting her to calm down 2) why do you think it’s okay to talk to me like that?! It just came out of no where. He never talks to me like that