Long story short we’ve been together over 10 years married 3 have a 20 month old. He now is saying that he realizes he did not want a family and prefers to be alone.

Like wtf he gets to choose how this family ends up for his selfish reasons. Feel like he’s wasted my time and have deliberately made a terrible life for our baby.

First of all who thinks this way and secondly how do I go about this? He’s acting like I’m overreacting for being upset. I’m just so over being upset about this. Like why can’t he just step up and be a husband? He’s a good father after I had to force him to learn how to be one but now he says he loves me and our family but would rather be alone. Says there is no one else and he plans on being alone “forever”

Ugh why waste my time and life on this person for the end result to be this?!

Help please advice or just hear me out

Don’t know who to talk to about this it’s embarrassing cause I really didn’t do anything wrong he says I’m a perfect wife

It just hurts so much.